I was able to treat her physical symptoms, but she kept telling me she did not feel well. Finally I told her I could do no more, and that perhaps her problem existed in the mind in which case she should be treated with ‘mind medicine.’ How can acupuncture help in a situation like that? Yet I still wanted to help her.
I remembered the Chinese adage: You think your kung fu is good, but if you travel in the mountains where the gangs who have stronger kung fu live, what will you do if you meet them? Though you remember what your teacher taught you, it is not enough to serve you in that moment. Suddenly you understand you must rise to the occasion and create something new, and in that moment of “something new” you surpass your teacher.
Thinking in this way, I pounded the table and told her, “Look! Now you are at the peak of your young life. You are enjoying your golden days. These are your best times! So this guy gave you up – what if you had married him and had four or five kids and through hardship became unattractive to him? Then he would have ended up leaving you anyway!” She understood this point, her mind opened up, and she was able to let go of her painful past. She became better, and to celebrate her victory, I performed the Lion Dance. She joined in just like a Kung Fu master beating out the sound of the gong and drum: ching, duck tung, ching…tung ching duck ching!
It impressed me much of how the writer can describe in such profound way when people releasing herself from despair!
ReplyDeleteIt is such a meaningful story! Please post more! :)
ReplyDeletePeople should learn to live on their own.There is nobody you can rely on forever because things around you will always change.Dr. Ng successfully encouraged this girl to find another new life by herself.
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